Too much time on my hands …

Day 143.

“I’ve got too much time on my hands
It’s hard to believe such a calamity
I’ve got too much time on my hands
And it’s ticking away, ticking away from me”
Styx

In the early part of last year I was struggling. My doctor suggested I go to counselling, and recommended a therapist.

My therapist is amazing. Professional, talented, compassionate, funny and practical. It was a real lifeline for me. Some people shy away from seeking out help – I can’t recommend it enough. My feeling is family and friends are great, but they are on your side and aren’t going to be objective. And they aren’t trained. So if you’ve ever thought about it, try it. It has to be the right person. You have to be prepared to go on a journey of self-discovery; but it can jump start you past, over or through your personal crisis.

It’s been six months since my last visit – and, feeling stuck, it seemed time to book an appointment. It was a good visit – and I was proud to talk about my newfound sobriety.

I have a few nuggets to share from the visit.

Here’s my first one.

One of my issues — I was still spending a lot of time playing many different scenarios over and over and over and over and over and over and over again in my head.

Why?

My therapist pointed out that now I wasn’t drinking, I had a lot of free time on my hands. I was filling it with that ‘over and over’ thinking.

Doh!

What are you going to do with the time you used to spend drinking?

I realized I need to stop wasting this new chunk of time on the past, and start using it in a more productive and healthy way. I have a beautiful opportunity to change and improve my life for the good with all this new found time.

Wow!

 

4 thoughts on “Too much time on my hands …

  1. I started piano lessons, while the lessons are only once a week I try and practice a little bit each day – takes up some time.
    Also looking into scrapbooking, slowly gathering the supplies and pinteresting ideas before I get started.
    Isn’t it great to be able to fill our spare time with things we’ve always wanted to do.
    xx

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    1. yes! thank you … wise insight ❤️ … and i have started thinking about positive life enhancing things to do with my time. it will be banjo for me, as it sits awaiting me here 😌

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      1. oooooh Banjo – that is so cool!
        I’m tempted to try and learn a language but am worried it would use up all my brain power.

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